Women And Reputation In Pride And Prejudice By Jane Austen

It is against human nature to be indifferent to public opinion, especially when those judgements evaluate one’s stature in society. Reputation is a tremendously significant theme for the female characters in Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice. The novel describes the intertwined lives of several middle and upper class families living in England during the late 1800s. In this time period, women had zero means of providing for themselves, so it was absolutely vital that they maintain a respectable peer opinion. Not only did a good reputation reflect a higher social ranking, but it also allowed a woman’s desirability for marriage to increase which was their sole resource for financial stability. In her novel, Pride and Prejudice, Jane Austen portrays women such as Charlotte Lucas, Lady Catherine de Bourgh, and Lydia in a negative light in order to criticize the immense social pressures that force them to either obsess over or damage their reputations. By illustrating the importance of reputation as a means of survival for these women, Austen criticizes the intensity of the social environment which evokes their negative behavior and highlights the prevalence of upholding one’s status in today’s society.

Jane Austen characterizes Charlotte Lucas through displaying her shallow obsession with wealth and status at the expense of her own happiness. When Charlotte ultimately decides to accept Mr. Collins’ proposal to her, she breaks the news to Lizzy by stating, “I am not romantic, you know; I never was. I ask only a comfortable home; and considering Mr. Collins’ character, connection, and situation in life, I am convinced that my chance of happiness with him is as fair as most people can boast on entering the marriage state’ (Austen 120). Despite Mr. Collins’ recent proposal to her best friend, Charlotte nonetheless accepts his hand in marriage in order to uphold her reputation in society. When she tells Lizzy she is “not a romantic,” Charlotte expresses her belief that love is not a necessity in a marriage and that happiness is a matter of chance. Her main priority is to find someone with a secure financial state with a good “connection” and decent “character” which Mr. Collins fulfills. Charlotte’s shallow values reflect badly on the morality of character. However, Charlotte sees advantages in maintaining a respectable reputation as a middle-class wife rather than being a homeless beggar. She is very well aware of a woman’s stance in society, and to her, reputation is everything because it will ensure her chances of survival. So while Charlotte may be portrayed in a negative light, she is actually conforming to the social norms that provide her aid to persevere in such a superficially demanding atmosphere.

Austen ultimately displays Lady Catherine de Bourgh in a negative manner through her demeaning interactions with people of a lower class throughout the novel. Upon hearing rumors that her nephew, Mr. Darcy, desires to be married to Miss Bennet, Lady Catherine attempts to convince Lizzy that this idea would be disastrous. Lady Catherine states, “While in their cradles, we planned the union… to be prevented by a young woman of inferior birth, of no importance in the world, and wholly unallied to the family?” (Austen 338). Lady Catherine is one of the few women in the novel who is at the top of the social hierarchy. Societal expectations essentially affect Lady Catherine’s perception of Lizzie which explains the supercilious and degrading attitude that she exhibits to her. The pressure to uphold a superior reputation is what basically drives Lady Catherine to tell Lizzy that she is not one of “importance in the world”. To Lady Catherine, Lizzy is not worthy to be engaged to Mr. Darcy since she is of such an inferior social class. Due to the intense and judgmental environment that Lady Catherine is engulfed in, she concludes that these circumstances would ruin the purity of the upper class elite . Thus, Austen’s negative portrayal of Lady Catherine as an entitled snob who feels the need to establish her own dominance to those of a lower status, emphasizes the utmost importance of reputation in this society.

Austen utilizes Lydia Bennet as an example to display the consequences for those who disregard the significance of reputation. Rumors about Lydia having premarital sex with Wickham put her reputation at great risk. In a pontifical letter to Mr. Bennet about the scandal, Mr. Collins writes, “The death of your daughter would have been a blessing in comparison of this. And it is the more to be limited because there is reason to suppose, as my dear Charlotte informed me, that is licentiousness of behavior and your daughter has proceeded from a faulty degree of indulgence” (Austen 282). Mr. Collins’ opinions of the situation represents society’s judgements of Lydia as a whole. Women during this time period were required to be disciplined and conservative in their actions. Thus, Lydia’s promiscuous and impulsive behavior defies these expectations and greatly damage her reputation since no potential suitors will be inclined to marry her. The severity of the scandal is reflected when Mr. Collins states that Lydia’s death would be “a blessing in comparison” to her reckless conduct. Without s marriage to Wickham, society deems Lydia as an undesirable whore which is equivalent to, if not worse, than being dead. Austen displays these harsh circumstances Lydia receives in order to show readers that women were forced to comply to societal expectations in fear of this type of backlash. Additionally, Austen writes, “Poor Lydia’s situation must, at best, be bad enough; but that it was no worse, she needed to be thankful. She felt it so; and though and looking forward neither rational happiness nor worldly prosperity could be just expected for her sister, and looking back to what they had feared only two hours ago, she felt all the advantages of what they had gained” (292). If Wickham had not been convinced to marry Lydia in the end, she would have become a poor, rejected waif to the rest of society. This quote portrays Lizzie’s relief that the unfortunate circumstances which were almost Lydia’s reality, are no longer a possibility. Although she doubts that Lydia will ever feel fulfilled in such a superficial and financially unstable relationship, Lizzie is “thankful” that at least Lydia’s reputation is not completely destroyed. Ultimately through Lydia’s reckless actions, Austen conveys to readers that upholding a good reputation is an absolute necessity to a woman’s social standing.

While some may argue that overall, Austen wrote the novel to criticize those who obsess over reputation, the evidence shows that in reality, her criticism lies within the intense social pressure to uphold a good stature. Austen displays the damaging effects these expectations have on women in the novel such as Charlotte Lucas, Lady Catherine de Bourgh and Lydia through her portrayal of them in a negative manner. It is important to note that the author is not reprimanding these women for their shallow, pretentious, or impetuous behavior, but rather the societal norms that force them to act in such a way. In today’s society, it is not uncommon for people to obsess over reputation as well. The way one dresses, speaks, or acts affects the public’s perception of a person which determines whether or not they are idolized or neglected by their peers. Thus, Austen highlights the connection between modern day people attempting to be accepted by those around them, and the women living during the time of Pride and Prejudice.

Works Cited

  1. Austen, Jane. Pride and Prejudice. Signet, 2008.

Pride And Prejudice By Jane Austen: Marriage Expectations In The Nineteenth Century

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen is a perfect representation of marriage conventions in the nineteenth century. A women’s main purpose was to get married rather than to work; therefore they spent most of their lives preparing for marriage. They did not have many opportunities for a job, and sexism greatly impacted this. Women did not marry for love but instead for money and stability. There are several expectations of marriage for women during the nineteenth century in England and these are portrayed in the novel Pride and Prejudice. Women spent their days preparing for marriage and managing the household while men went to work because they were seen as weaker than men. Girls were educated on topics known as accomplishments (Hughes). Accomplishments were important because “‘a woman must have a thorough knowledge of music, singing, drawing, dancing, and the modern languages, to deserve the world’” (Austen 39). After being educated, girls started searching for a husband at the age of seventeen. They did not know how to go about talking to men because they were prohibited to flirt or see any men during their childhood (Nelson). There were not many opportunities to meet men so they prepared in advance to impress them at events.

Many women would attend balls or casual dances to search for a husband. The men would ask the women to dance if they were interested in them. Normally, it was not appropriate to dance with the same person more than twice. If the man asked again, everyone at the ball thought they were engaged (Hatch). In Pride and Prejudice, Mr. Bingley asks Jane Bennet to dance and “‘she was the only creature in the room that he asked a second time”’ (Austen 14).

Later in the novel, it is clear that Mr. Bingley did have an interest in Jane. Jane likes Mr. Bingley because she has true feelings for him. She does not like him because of his social status and why women would normally be interested in a man like Bingley. Women typically got married in their twenties but the men were normally several years older (Hughes). Women tended to look for older men because their main concern was financial and social status. The man would need to be older in order to be wealthy because they had to work to earn money (Hall). The wealth of the man was more important “since we see every day that where there is affection, young people are seldom withheld by immediate want of fortune, from entering into engagements with each other” (Austen 143). Women had a hard time finding a husband because of sexism and all of the rules that went along with marriage.

It was not acceptable for a women to propose to a man. They had to wait for a man to propose to them and sometimes this opportunity never came. They also could not express their feelings of love towards a man until they were proposed to. An engagement lasted around six months to two years and if women were unsure of the man they were going to marry, they were supposed to forget about those feelings. Once women were married, they had no freedom and were controlled by their husbands. Women sacrificed their life to provide for their husbands and family (Nelson). Although women looked for a man that was wealthy and was in a higher social class, men looked for certain qualities in a woman.

There was an ideal woman that men looked for and this included being modest, unintellectual, and unambitious (Nelson). It was also important for a man to marry a woman within the same social class as him. If the woman was below that social class, there was a possibility of the man ruining their family’s reputation. This is prevalent when Mr. Darcy becomes involved with Elizabeth Bennet. Darcy could ruin his reputation because he would not be able to advance financially with Elizabeth (Hall). After getting married, women had even more restrictions in their lives.

Women could not buy or sell property without their finances or husband’s permission (Nelson). When it came to inheriting property, the property always went to the oldest son if the owner passed away. If the owner did not have any children that were male, the oldest male relative would inherit the property. The property went to the oldest son or male relative to keep the estate running smoothly (Bailey). Widows had a hard time owning property as well. Anything they purchased while they were married had to go to whoever was supposed to inherit the husband’s estate (Nelson).

Because the Bennet’s did not have any sons, the estate was going to be inherited by Mr. Collins. To still have access to the estate after Mr. Bennet dies, Mrs. Bennet wants one of her daughters to get married to Mr. Collins (Bailey). Mr. Collins decides he wants to marry Elizabeth and expects her to agree because it was expected of a woman to say yes in this era. Elizabeth remains silent during the proposal and Mr. Collins believes this is Elizabeth’s way of saying yes (Nelson). Elizabeth declines the proposal by saying “‘you could not make me happy, and I am convinced that I am the last woman in the world who would make you so”’ (Austen 105). Because Mr. and Mrs. Bennet gives Mr. Collins permission to marry their daughter, Collins does not think it is acceptable for Elizabeth to turn down his offer. Elizabeth is offended by Collins’s assumptions and both of them leave the conversation angry with one another (Nelson). This is one of many marriages in the novel that caused problems within the family.

Men would often seduce young women without the intention of marrying them. This is shown when Wickham and Lydia run off to get married in Scotland. Wickham was not going to marry Lydia unless he was paid. Mr. Darcy makes sure that Lydia and Wickham get married by paying off Wickham so that the family’s reputation stays intact. Marriages that involved minors were legal because the age of consent was fourteen for boys and twelve for girls. Although this was permitted, many family members did not approve of these relationships. Lydia was much younger than Wickham but the Bennet’s believed they were going to get married for financial reasons (Bailey).

The novel, Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen, displays many of the marriage expectations and discrimination against women in England during the nineteenth century. The novel shows the reader how marriage affected men and women during this era. Women spent their entire lives preparing for marriage through education and attending events to search for a husband. Once women got married, they had no freedom and were the property of their husbands. It is important to be educated on the sexism women endured in the past to prevent this from happening in today’s world. Pride and Prejudice is an example of how marriage should not be and women now have the freedom to resist this discrimination.

Works Cited

  1. Austen, Jane. Pride and Prejudice 1813. Penguin Books, 2014.
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