Category: Family Values

Family values refers to the ‘ideas or beliefs that give great importance to the traditional family of a mother, a father, and children all living together’(1) which cover spiritual and religious values, family communications, educational values, family time and family traditions (2). It teaches children to distinguish between wrong or right and plays a huge role in a child’s upbringing. For the purpose of this report, I will focus on the effects of social media on family time and family communication. Family time is the time spent together as a family doing activities like sports or arts to even just sitting together for meals. Communication within a family unit is very important: it enables them to express concerns and feelings (16).

Social media according to the Oxford dictionary is defined as ‘websites and software programs used for social networking’ (19). For example Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and others. It is a platform which helps people voice out their opinions and beliefs while also allowing people to make friends and stay in touch with family and current friends from around the world. Social media networking is a form of globalisation as through it our world is more interconnected as it provides us a platform to communicate with anyone, anywhere and it’s faster and cheaper to share ideas and information. According to Datareportal as of 2020, almost 51% of the total global population (approximately 3.96 billion people) use social media (4).

Family communication and time can be neglected as our busy daily schedule leaves barely a few hours for families to communicate as they become occupied with their school, chores and work lives; the most common time spent together are meal times (26). Having meal times together benefits a child and parent because experiences and how the day has been spent can be expressed, making parents more aware of their child’s life and challenges. Sharing time with child information on how work life is provides the child a glimpse of the struggles a parent goes through for them. Which creates and closer bond between parent and child and more importantly it gives them a time to interact and build better relationships and communication.

A smart phone can easily become a source of distraction for both parents and children. Many people don’t realise how much time they spend on social media. According to a survey 61% of people surveyed agreed that the overuse of technology has had a negative impact on family life (11). It is very common for teens to have social media accounts. According to study by New York Behaviour Health 22% of teenagers log on to their favourite social media site more than 10 times a day and more than half of adolescents log on to a social media site more than once a day(7). Approximately 75% of teenagers own cell phones, and 25% use them for social media, 54% for texting and 24% for instant messaging Children, ages 8-18, spend over 7.5 hours a day, 7 days a week using media sites outside of school(7). Research conducted by Market Watch showed that the average teen spends at least nine hours online (13). The average 12th grader spends approximately 2 hours texting, 2 hours on social media and 2 hours just browsing the internet (13). In fact 72% of parents say their teen is sometimes or often distracted by their phone while having real-life conversations(14) but of course communication is a two way system whilst parents claim that their child doesn’t pay attention to them, so do the 51% of teens who say the same about their parents(14). According to Understood Org, 56% of US residents find others use of electronics during family mealtimes annoying (11) . Better quality family time also strengthens bonds leading to happier memories of each other. The mere presence of a parent means nothing if the parent is occupied with social media uploading pictures on Facebook or Instagram so much so that they aren’t actually focusing on their child.

Parents may even post child’s achievements on social media to compete against other families which makes time spent together seem scripted and all an act for social media. A not high achieving child would feel worthless as they would be under the stress of competing and can result in friction between the two children. Emotional neglect of a child is believed to negatively affect the emotional, social and cognitive development (12).

According to a study by National Library of Medicine teens are very vulnerable to socials standards and many tend to develop insecurities from peer pressure and social media (5). It is common for a teen to post their best days and best looks on social media. Some even hop into the bandwagon of trends just to seem accepted and cool if not they feel inferior and feel the need to seem cool or else they wouldn’t be socially accepted for example many teens pick up smoking and drinking alcohol from peer pressure. This leads them to spending less time with their families and instead more time online trying to keep up with trends. This can lead to mental illnesses which further leads to a neglect on family life and also social media addiction.

According to an article by Healthy Option being distracted with social media and notifications can lead to a social media addiction which can causes increase in fatigue, stress, peer pressure and can lead to obesity and other health issues(21). According to a study by Harvard University this is because the brain releases dopamine which makes you feel happy every time a notification is received therefore the brain develops a desire for more social media interaction (22). Therefore people with social media addiction tend to spend more time on social media then with their family and friends, this leads to a lack of social skills. Social media communication is not the same as real life conversing you would need to know how to read body languages, tone of voice and other aspects like eye contact and hand movement absence of face to face conversations one tends to lose skills and become reserved and become socially awkward (21).

On the other hand the advantage of social media is that it helps strengthen family communication. These days distance is not an issue and digital technology helps us stay connected with our family from all around the world. Through social media platforms roughly two thirds (67%) of social media users say that staying in touch with current friends and family members is the major reason they use social media. About half of the group say they use these sites to reconnect with old friends (3). Those who study overseas have to rely on social media to maintain communication with their family. Family members who live abroad now have access to video on video conference apps like Facetime and Skype and picture sharing through Instagram or Facebook. Helping them get the real life feeling of being together. Video calling also helps communication as one can easily call an overseas family member during celebrations or in times of need. An example of this would be during the Covid-19 pandemic lockdown, many used social media and video conferences to stay in touch with their families overseas. In this people were able to screen their wedding allowing family members around the globe to witness happy moments despite facing a pandemic.

Social media is a powerful asset for gender equality. Women around the globe are now able to work, get equal excess to education and have a platform to raise their voice on (20). Despite this there are women who receive backlash for the content they posting online. An example of this would be the murder of Qandeel Baloch, a Pakistani social media celebrity who was murdered in 2016 by her brother who believed her social media posts brought dishonour to the family name. These types of murders are called honoured killings and are common in Pakistan, in fact vice chair of the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan has provided statistics that 1,500 killings occurred between 2016 and 2018(23). However majority people did not see this as a crime as they believed she was a disgrace and that her murder was justified and in fact a powerful lesson for women (24). However her murder has enhanced laws on honour killing and caused a shift for women (25).

According to a reliable resource, Malaysia pulls in 23.4 million social media users (6). Malaysian culture is a mix of people from India, Malay and Chinese culture. Overall Malaysian culture is based on the religious and traditional believes of the three main ethnic groups. Islam is the official religion, followed by three fifth populations is Muslim therefore the laws follow the Shariah law too (9). An example would be child marriage being allowed in Malaysia, as long as the female is of 16 years old and the male is of 18 years old as stated in the Islamic family law. According to newspaper article by New Strait Times, as of 2019, 5823 Muslim child marriages registered in Malaysia, with Sarawak having the highest number at 974, followed by Sabah with 877, and Kelantan with 848 (10). It may seem wrong to people of other countries therefore through them sharing their opinion on social media many Malaysians have started to question the cultural values by comparing or viewing in a different cultural perspective against our national belief system. Some cultures and practises that doesn’t make sense or are unaccepted to other social groups but because we have been influenced to believing them therefore we tend to not question it however with the rise in use of social media we are then exposed to the ideas and beliefs of others and are able to make judgement based on other perspectives too. In a recent survey conducted with hundreds of Form 4 (16 to 17 years old) students in 10 schools in Taiping and Kuala Lumpur, most of the male and female respondents disagreed that it was acceptable for girls to be married before the age of 18. This shows that the respondents reject child marriages (10). Therefore it can be concluded that social media has managed to bring up issues in this law and it is now being revised

A common way to prevent social media from having a negative effect on family is firstly to limit screen time. It is common for a child to pick up from their parents behaviour and habits so a child may have picked up being addicted to social media from observing their parents (15) so if their parents could set an example and use their devices less the child would also learn to limit usage. This helps increase time spent together and reduces the risk of social media addiction. However if a person were diagnosed with social media addiction they can get clinical help and therapy. Providing proper education on the effects of social media and negative impacts of social media addiction can also help make parent and child realise how bad social media is for them and they can learn the importance of family values.

In conclusion, despite social media aiding us in communication, sharing of ideas and bring a sense of togetherness in times where we can’t be together the harmful effects certainly out weight the benefits. We may not realise that it is slowly tearing our families apart despite promising better connections. I believe that social media does have negative impact onto family values and in order to maintain the values we have, we must restrain our social media usage. Personally my perspective on the topic wasn’t different before researching for the report however after conducting research I am now further understands the consequences and am able to apply what I have learnt into my daily life

In my family, we have a naming tradition. Your first name is whatever your parents fancy, your middle is your father’s name, and your last is your grandfather’s name. For my parents the name Hassan really spoke to them it was the religious significance of the name that really drew my mother in. I am Muslim just as much as I am African. Both identities have created a conflicting and troublesome dynamic. However, that isn’t all that defines me I had barely understood myself until the spring break of my sophomore year. To set the stage, I was in my room listening to Chance the Rapper’s song “Prom Night” feeling every lyric in my core; I was sprawled on my bed with photoshop pulled up on my banged up laptop. I started bobbing my head yelling the lyrics out. Graduation night teachers Ferris buellerd my name. It seemed to anyone else but me like a seizure had been stitched into a private musical performance. You got a mixtape good job I hope you get a good jump we were all outcasts only listened to good mob. I performed at fun fair fun fact I’m never going back to school been there done that. My brother stuck his head in my door unannounced.

“Hey bro you trying to go to this photoshoot with me?” he asked.

“Where that joint at?” I inquisitively asked looking up from my computer screen.

“You coming or not?” he asked looking impatient and in a rush to get out of the house.

“Yeah alright let me get ready right quick,” I yelled as he walked through the small hallway that connects the upper floor of our house.

At that point, I had put on my clothes at roadrunner speed and was out the door. My brother and I drove out of our hood, which was located in East Nashville. First, we went by the home of my brother’s business partners, Tre and Brandon. This was the first time that I met people who looked and came from the same cultural background as me doing something like running a business. It in a way inspired me to pursue something bigger than what I had known. Growing up African, my immediate community was full of people whose only dreams were to be soccer players or people who had no real ambition at all.

We drove back into East Nashville passing run-down businesses and local schools. The female models were unable to make but the male models were already there. I wasn’t even sure how I could contribute. The shoot was in the in the courtyard of a recently built condo right across from an abandoned church sprayed with beautiful graffiti. Down the street was a Family Dollar across from it was a Burger UP and First Tennessee Bank. It was a sunny day; we looked out of place a bunch of African American men in East Nashville. The photoshoot was shot by local photographer Keptfrozen. I watched my brother command the photographers. It was then that I was asked to be the one who recorded behind the scenes. I found myself joking, ordering people, and capturing the small moments. I asked questions about everything, by the end, I couldn’t shake the feeling that that was where I was supposed to be.

This moment in time began the conflict between how I was raised and what I aspired to be. Art was the complete opposite of how I grew up. All I had known was the isolation of my room and the confines of religion. My brother inspired me to pursue my own path. Seeing the need to have more places where kids can express themselves, my nonprofit that I called Censor. Our mission: create a safe and uncensored environment for teens to express themselves through collaboration and mentor ship. It’s funny how all of this started from a small photo shoot during one spring morning.

Artifacts are an important part of human civilization, artifacts that come from different parts of the world and are unique symbols to many cultures. These are found all over the world and are passed from generation to generation. Artifacts are made up of music, art, literature, philosophy, and religion which are deeply rooted in specific types of cultures. The Statue of Liberty for example is an artifact that represents the United States as a country, it represents freedom and the American dream. For many years other countries have looked at us as a young nation who have stood up for justice, freedom, and democracy. The Statue of Liberty is considered more than a cultural artifact. Like the Statue of Liberty is an artifact of America, a significant artifact that I cherish is my grandma’s old cross from Ecuador, even though I’m not as religious as the rest of my family members the cross is a family artifact that has protected us and guided us through tough times. Artifacts signify different things to many people and we need to value how each person experiences artifacts.

The cross is a frequently used cultural artifact that has been around for millions of years, from the moment that it was first invented till now, it has been a symbolic symbol for many Christians, who see it as a representation of their beliefs and values. In the new world encyclopedia it mentions how today besides the common representation that the cross has with Christianity, there are other forms where the cross represents something else. Several countries like Switzerland and Britain use the cross as a symbol for their flag, not to forget the red cross emblem which was based on the Swiss flag. Even though the cross has different meanings for many different people most believe that the meaning behind the cross is related to religious freedom and morals. Where my parents come from South America, religion is a huge part of people’s lives. It’s traditions that have been going strong for years. Even though religion has declined it still dictates how most people choose to live their lives. Depending on your background, people can interpret the meaning of the cross in many different ways. For me, a cross symbolizes a piece of my belief and morals. Growing up, I was born and raised in a Catholic family. I attended church every Sunday with my parent and because of this, the cross was always present, at home and at church. They told me it was a symbol of how Jesus Christ sacrificed his life to save ours. The cross was also a source of comfort in hard times, so from early childhood, the cross was a positive thing in my life.

Even though I and many other people have a positive view of the cross many people may associate the cross with negative views. I have to remember that others have seen the cross or what it represents as a direct attack on how they live or what they believe. For example, an artist by the name of David Wojnarowicz whose work was the subject of the Smithsonian Museum of attempted the removal of Wojnarowicz’s video which the artist intended as an anguished tribute to his partner who died from AIDS in 1987. “The Smithsonian bowed to select Republican politicians and conservative groups (most of whom, interestingly enough, may not have actually seen the exhibit) but were upset because the video contained an 11-second segment showing ants crawling on a crucifix” (Ketchum, Robert). So, just as I and many other people have a right to see the cross as a symbol of good, David Wojnarowicz has the right to see it as a sign of evil, we are no one to judge another person’s perspective and experience with a cultural artifact, artifacts itself are meant to hold multiple meanings. People like Wojnarowicz see the cross, and it reminds them of an institution who have a set of rules which people need to follow or else they will be rejected and tormented by those same people who believe that the cross signifies hope, and as I remember the church does not condone those practiced of intolerance and hate.

Artifacts are precious reminders of how culture is presented. I see artifacts as representations of someone’s values. I have learned that an artifact can have so much meaning in one’s life. Me, I never really thought about how much of my life a cross represented and the significance of this figure in my life, until now.

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As timeless as they are, parental principles form the bedrock of societal structures and personal development. This essay delves into the intricate tapestry of family values, exploring their role in shaping individuals and communities. Traditionally, household values have been synonymous with principles like respect, love, and support. However, as societies evolve, so do the interpretations and applications of these values. This dynamic interplay between tradition and modernity raises critical questions: How do parental principles influence personal identity and social behavior? What happens when traditional values clash with contemporary views?

The definition of family has grown more inclusive and diverse during rapid technological advancements and shifting cultural landscapes. This evolution invites a re-examination of long-held beliefs and practices. The essay will explore how different cultures imbue parental principles with unique meanings, reflecting various perspectives and experiences. Furthermore, it will scrutinize the impact of these values on children’s upbringing, interpersonal relationships, and societal norms.

The essence of this exploration is not just to understand family values but how they function as a guiding force in an individual’s life. From the microcosm of a household to the broader societal framework, parental principles are instrumental in forging character, shaping choices, and defining our understanding of right and wrong. This essay aims to uncover the multifaceted nature of familial values, offering insights into their enduring significance in an ever-changing world.

100 Words Essay on Family Values

Family values, the fundamental beliefs and principles that guide life, are crucial in shaping character and strengthening bonds. These values, often passed down through generations, include respect, love, and responsibility. They foster a sense of belonging and provide a moral compass, guiding decisions and behaviors. In today’s diverse society, parental principles adapt, embracing inclusivity and understanding, reflecting the evolving nature of dynamics. They play a vital role in nurturing and preparing individuals for societal interactions, emphasizing the importance of relationships and ethical conduct. Ultimately, values are the threads that weave the fabric of familial unity and societal harmony.

250 Words Essay on Family Values

Family values, often considered the backbone of societal structure, are paramount in shaping individuals and communities. These values, a blend of moral and ethical principles, are transmitted across generations, fostering a sense of identity, belonging, and responsibility. They act as a compass, guiding members in their personal growth, decision-making, and social interactions.

At the core of parental principles lies unity, respect, and love. These principles encourage members to support one another, fostering environments where trust and understanding thrive. Respect, not just for elders but all members, cultivates an atmosphere of mutual appreciation and acceptance. Love, the most fundamental of these beliefs, acts as the binding force, strengthening ties and offering a sense of security and belonging.

In an ever-evolving world, family values are undergoing significant transformations. Traditional notions are being redefined to embrace modern realities, including blended families, cross-cultural influences, and the rise of digital connectivity. This dynamic nature of family values highlights their adaptability and relevance in contemporary society.

Moreover, parental principles are critical in shaping societal norms and expectations. They inculcate virtues like honesty, hard work, and compassion, crucial for societal harmony and progress. Children raised in environments where these values are prioritized grow into responsible, empathetic, and well-adjusted individuals.

So, family values are not just principles but the legacy passed down through generations, shaping the fabric of our society. They evolve with time, reflecting the changes in societal norms and expectations, yet their essence remains pivotal in nurturing robust and cohesive social units and responsible, conscientious individuals.

400 Words Essay on Family Values

Family values, a cornerstone of human society, represent the ethical and moral ideals that guide the behavior and interactions of family members. These beliefs, deeply ingrained in the cultural fabric, are not merely principles but a legacy passed down through generations. They serve as the foundation upon which individuals build their character and worldview, significantly influencing their journey through life.

Fundamental principles such as love, respect, and support lie at the heart of parental principles. Unconditional and selfless love binds family members together, creating a nurturing environment where each individual can flourish. Respect, encompassing both elders and peers, fosters a culture of mutual understanding and tolerance. Emotional and physical support ensures that family members are not alone in their struggles and triumphs, creating a safety net that bolsters resilience and confidence.

In the dynamic landscape of contemporary society, the concept of family and its associated values are constantly evolving. Traditional nuclear families have made way for various forms, including single-parent families, blended families, and those with same-sex parents. This diversity has expanded the scope of parental principles, incorporating broader themes of inclusivity, acceptance, and adaptability. It highlights the need for family values to be flexible and responsive to the changing social milieu, ensuring their relevance and effectiveness. The impact of familial principles extends beyond the confines of the home, influencing societal norms and behaviors. Values like honesty, hard work, and compassion, nurtured within the family, play a crucial role in shaping responsible, empathetic, and well-adjusted individuals. They foster community and citizenship, driving societal progress and harmony.

Furthermore, the role of familial principles in shaping young individuals’ identities and beliefs is profound. These values are instrumental in guiding their moral compass, distinguishing right from wrong, and shaping their attitudes toward others and themselves. In this way, parental principles not only mold the individual but, in turn, shape the society they are part of. In the digital age, where virtual interactions often replace face-to-face communication, the importance of familial principles becomes even more pronounced. They serve as a grounding force, reminding individuals of the importance of real-world connections and the human touch.

So, family values are the threads that weave together the tapestry of life, contributing significantly to the development of individuals and the societal structure at large. They evolve with time, adapting to the changing dynamics of society, yet their essence remains crucial. Family values are not just about conforming to societal norms but about fostering a sense of identity, belonging, and purpose, enriching the human experience, and contributing to a cohesive and progressive society.

500 Words Essay on Family Values

Family values, deeply embedded in the tapestry of human society, are the guiding principles and moral standards that shape the dynamics of family life. These values, often passed down from generation to generation, serve as a foundational framework for personal growth and societal interaction. They influence the development of character, ethics, and interpersonal relationships, playing a pivotal role in forming individual identities and communal bonds.

Concepts such as love, respect, support, and communication are central to parental principles. Love, in its most unadulterated form, is the bedrock of house life, offering a haven of acceptance and understanding. It nurtures a sense of belonging, providing emotional security and fostering solid and enduring. Respect for elders and between members ensures a culture of mutual appreciation and acknowledgment, which is vital for maintaining harmony and reducing conflicts. Support, encompassing emotional, physical, and financial aspects, creates a network of reliance and trust, essential in times of need. Effective communication and fostering open and honest exchanges are crucial for understanding and addressing individual needs and concerns and strengthening the housing unit.

The evolving nature of family structures in contemporary society has broadened the scope of parental principles. With diverse parental principles, including single-parent households, blended families, and same-sex parent families, becoming more prevalent, traditional values have adapted to encompass inclusivity, adaptability, and resilience. These modern interpretations reflect the dynamic nature of society, emphasizing the need for family values to be flexible and relevant in changing times.

Family values play a significant role in societal development and cohesion. They inculcate virtues like honesty, hard work, responsibility, and empathy, which are essential for the functioning of a healthy society. When instilled from a young age, these values mold individuals into responsible citizens capable of contributing positively to their communities. They influence behaviors, decision-making, and overall attitudes toward life, underscoring the importance of a well-grounded value system.

In the realm of personal development, family values are instrumental. They guide young individuals in forming their moral compass, distinguishing right from wrong. These values shape attitudes towards self and others, influencing choices and life paths. For instance, a family that emphasizes education and continuous learning instills a love for knowledge in its members, impacting their future career choices and intellectual pursuits.

Digital technology and social media have introduced new challenges and opportunities in upholding parental principles. While technology has facilitated more accessible communication and access to information, it also poses risks, such as reduced face-to-face interactions and exposure to negative influences. In this context, family values become even more crucial, counterbalancing and promoting real-world connections, empathy, and mindfulness in the digital age.

In conclusion, parental principles are much more than a set of moral guidelines; they are the essence of our social fabric. They evolve with societal changes, yet their core importance remains constant. These values are fundamental in shaping individuals, strengthening families, and building cohesive communities. They provide a sense of identity, purpose, and direction, enriching the human experience. As society evolves, reinforcing and adapting family values will remain vital to nurturing well-rounded individuals and a harmonious society.

Family is the representation and foundation of self. This unity of acceptance of each other respect unconditional sacrifices, love, and support is built through past, current, and future generations. The family goes beyond bloodlines and last names. We share similar beliefs and customs. Building strong family customs and traditions allows generations to use self-preservation of identity. Family means something different to each of us. We often adapt to family members which our family extends. Second, you should explain how your use of symbols, placement of family members, connecting lines, and boundaries represent the members of your family and particularly the relationships within the family. For my family genogram, I used a diagram that shows a pictorial display for those of my family.

The symbols I have chosen are squares and circles. My mother’s side of the family is far small. My father’s side has a huge family. There are huge add differences between his sibling. My father is the last born of the family. I placed an ‘X’ over those that have deceased as a symbol for their cross-over or homegoing. My mother and father were married for 5 years. My parents choose to divorce when I was only 2 years old. However, despite their divorce. My father remarried when I was at the age of 6. My father and my stepmother had two children by the time I was 10. I have a younger brother and sister on my father’s side. I also have a brother who is 16 years younger than me on my mother’s side by my mother’s ex-husband. I also showed my mother’s side of the family. I also showed my mother’s side of the family. I have 2 aunts and 1 uncle on my mother’s side with 4 cousins. Both of my grandparents on my mother’s side passed away in the early 80s. My grandmother on my father’s side was the only grandparent that I have ever lived to see. My grandfather passed away after I was born. On my father’s side, I have 1 uncle and 2 aunts. I have 3 cousins. I also showed my grandaunt and my great cousin that gave birth to my great cousins,3 generations, 5 in total which I consider close family. There are all around my age. I see my family as an open family. Both my mother’s side and father’s sides of the family value strong communication with each other. My mother’s side is willing to change or adapt. The problem with my father’s side of the family is that they are close-knitted which pulling away from family or setting boundaries from members that you may consider toxic can be seen as abandonment. For instance, my father took care of my uncle that got released from prison. My uncle ‘did not want to change, as my father stated. My father is the baby brother and he seems to have so much pressure to help and assist my uncle. My aunts were so upset that they felt as if my father was pulling away from them. Family involvement is excepted to be intense on my father’s side. A closed family system can be left unchanged. A closed family system can be strict in which family member implies that there everyone follows rules even though they are not appropriate or valuable to ones oneself. There is no flow of information in which family members tend to change which can hinder their growth. There are no new ideas that come into the system(Stern,2017). For instance, it is like living in a house with no windows are doors. People can not flourish. My mother and her sisters were adopted and raised by my great-grandparents in Louisiana. My uncle was raised by my grandmother and his father in California. Just like my father, my mother was the last born of her brother and sisters as well. My aunts were considered rebellious and often struggled with substance abuse. I have also heard stories in which my aunts were emotionally and physically abusive to one another. However, my great-parents ignored the abuse that took place. Despite my father’s and mother’s upbringing, I consider that my current family structure is known to be random. My father and mother both instill in me to value my own creativity and novelty. I always see myself in both of my parents, however, both of my parents encouraged me to value my own individuality. Random families can have problems with structure and boundaries if they are not alert or do not set permeable boundaries. The open family orients to the past, present, and future with the balance between continuity and change.

The word “family” is special, and unique in many different aspects. While some believe family is purely a blood relation, others realize that family is much more than that. It is about loyalty and the people who support you, no matter the circumstance. This essay will argue why the relationship of the bezprizorni in The Wild Children is an accurate representation of a family in a modern context.

To begin, I will be discussing what classifies a member of a family. Firstly, blood relations are not the only way to classify a member as being part of a family. For instance, if you adopted a child it would become a member of your family, without being blood-related to you. Thus, the family does not necessarily need to be blood-related in order to become family. In The Wild Children, Peter and Alex, two bezprizorni, both recognize that they are a family. In particular, Alex said, “No Peter, he entreated. Come with us. We are a… a family.” (pg.148) Peter then said, “Yes…And I am going back for others in the family.” This shows that there is a very strong bond between Peter and Alex who are part of the bezprizorni. They would do anything to ensure their safety and well-being. Therefore, Alex, Peter, and the bezprizorni are classified as a family without having any blood relation among them.

Next, I will go into more detail on the loyalty of family, and the support they provide. To begin, a member of the family has extreme loyalty as one will not abandon another, especially during difficult times in life. For instance, before the bezprizorni escaped the local children’s home, Peter went to find Anya, a member of the bezprizorni. Peter explains, “Anya was curled like a kitten on a window ledge, sleeping soundly. He lifted her gently and hurried to the window.” (pg. 108) This statement demonstrates Peter’s sense of care and loyalty toward Anya by not abandoning her at the local children’s home. Another point regarding family involves the unconditional support it embodies. Connecting to The Wild Children, Peter helped Miska, another bezprizorni member escape the harsh local children’s home. Peter acted quickly after, “The leather bludgeon in the director’s hand was raised and brought down in one continuous heavy motion.” (pg. 100) which struck Miska. Moreover, Peter was handed an inch of vodka, “sniffed it, put a drop on his tongue, and then poured it all over the wound.” (pg. 101) This situation reveals the immense amount of moral support Peter gave to Miska which he also displays with other bezprizorni members. Overall, this shows that the bezprizorni never abandon another, no matter the circumstances, and that they always stay loyal to one another as a family.

As I discussed in the previous paragraph, a family’s support and loyalty are important, which the bezprizorni established throughout The Wild Children. Moreover, blood relation is not the only factor at play in determining who is part of a family. The bezprizorni showed how strong their bond is without having any blood relation through multiple life experiences between Peter, Alex, Anya, and Miska. Therefore, this proves that the word “family” developed a new interpretation as a result of the story, now with a new form/meaning.

God designed the family. The family is the foundational institution of society ordained by God. It is constituted by marriage and is composed of people related to one another by marriage, blood, or adoption.

Family means having someone to love you unconditionally in spite of your shortcomings. The family loves and supports one another even when it is not easy to do. It is being the best person you could be so you may inspire your loved ones. Family does not see color, race, creed, or culture, it sees the heart. Family is not always about being connected biologically, because it understands that other things and influences blind us. Family is unrelenting.

A family provides much-needed emotional, social, financial, and other support to us. Without family, life would be unimaginably difficult, and everyday tasks would have been impossible to achieve. The feeling that someone loves you and waiting for you to return safe and on time can be better experienced than stated. The importance of a family is well understood by those who do not have one. Being all alone in this big world is the worst thing to happen to someone; on the contrary, having a family is the best. Family is not just important, rather, it is the most important.

Regardless of what form of family you have, one this is certain—family shapes us. Our family is our first introduction to the world. It is also our first interaction with it. We learn the most basic and the most important social skills in our family. In addition, we also fulfill our emotional needs through the family. Humans are social animals, which means it is not possible for us to live an entirely solitary life. Modern life is tough and stressful. Handling it becomes a lot easier if you have a support system behind you and that support system is your family.

Love them or hate them, families are a very essential part of our lives. They play crucial roles in teaching how to deal with things in the world. Without a family, an individual’s identity will never be complete. Having a family is such a basic necessity that often we take it for granted. Our families stay with us from our first breath to our last. They provide us with the foundation upon which we build ourselves. To me, family is an extension of myself. It is through family that we learn how to love and be loved, how to give and receive, and how to respect others while earning respect from them. It provides the framework for our views of the world. The socially acceptable version of family is the people who are biologically related to you.

Family acts as the bulwark against the world. On a purely practical level, we are unable to care for ourselves when we came into the world. It is our family who takes care of our basic needs and protects us. As we grow older, that protection expands to give us a place where we can find emotional security as well. Hence, a family has a great influence on how we interact with others and society. To gain productive interaction, we need to follow certain rules and norms. They determine not just the interactions but the thinking that goes beyond these interactions. Without a family, we end up navigating the calms, the storms, and the choppy water of life alone. If we do not have a family to anchor us, we often fail at this navigation and drown under the force of everything that life throws us. Family gives us the strength we need to get through and enables us to celebrate the good things in life.

How to write essay about family – Intro

Writing an essay about family offers a unique opportunity to delve into the dynamics, values, and emotions that shape our closest relationships. This guide provides a framework for crafting an engaging essay that captures the multifaceted nature of familial connections.

Reflect on your own family experiences, drawing inspiration from personal anecdotes, cultural traditions, or literary references. Explore the roles, responsibilities, and evolving dynamics within your family structure.

Consider the power of communication in family life, how members interact, express emotions, and share stories. Recognize the diversity of familial structures and experiences, incorporating different perspectives to enrich your essay.

Writing essay about family celebrates the beauty, complexity, and transformative power of family bonds. By reflecting on personal experiences, examining family dynamics, and acknowledging diversity, you can create an essay that pays homage to the remarkable tapestry of family life. Embark on a journey of self-discovery and understanding as you explore the deep connections within your own family.

Essay About Family 1 (100 words)

Introduction

Family plays a vital role in our lives, providing love, support, and a sense of belonging. It shapes our identities and fosters emotional connections.

Role of a Family in Our Lives

Families offer emotional support, teach values, and guide personal growth. They provide a sense of identity and belonging, nurturing our character development. Within the family, we learn essential ethics and morals. Families also act as a source of stability and security during challenging times.

Conclusion

Family is indispensable, offering love, support, and a sense of belonging. It shapes our identities and provides a foundation for personal growth. Recognizing the importance of family enriches our lives, as we navigate the world with the unwavering love and support of our closest ones.

Essay About Family 2 (200 words)

Introduction

Family is a vital part of our lives, offering us a sense of belonging and support. It plays a crucial role in shaping our values, providing a secure foundation for personal growth, and forming lasting connections that bring joy and fulfillment. Without family, life would be incomplete and devoid of love and companionship.

Importance of Family

Family provides emotional support, unconditional love, and acceptance, boosting our confidence and helping us overcome challenges. It guides us in developing strong moral values, cultural traditions, and a sense of identity. Families create a safe and stable environment, offering comfort and security during difficult times while fostering growth, happiness, and resilience. They teach us the importance of empathy, compassion, and teamwork.

Conclusion

In conclusion, family is essential. It offers emotional support, imparts values, and provides security. We should cherish and nurture our family bonds, as they shape our character, contribute to our happiness, and create a lasting legacy that enriches our lives and the lives of future generations. It is the heart and soul of our existence, and its significance cannot be overstated.

Essay About Family 3 (300 words)

Introduction

Family is an essential aspect of every individual’s life, providing love, support, and a sense of belonging. It plays a fundamental role in shaping our identities and influencing our overall well-being. In this essay, we will explore the importance of a family, the atmosphere in my family, and the significance of maintaining strong familial bonds.

The Importance of a Family

A family serves as the foundation of our lives, offering a nurturing environment for personal growth and development. Within the family unit, we learn values, traditions, and customs that shape our character and define our cultural identity. Families provide emotional support during challenging times, acting as a safety net when we face difficulties. They celebrate our successes, encourage our dreams, and provide a sense of belonging that is unparalleled.

Moreover, families play a crucial role in fostering strong relationships and communication skills. Interactions with family members teach us the art of compromise, empathy, and conflict resolution. These skills are vital for building healthy relationships not only within the family but also in other spheres of life, such as friendships, romantic partnerships, and professional settings.

The Atmosphere in my Family

In my family, there is a warm and nurturing atmosphere that promotes love, understanding, and respect. We prioritize open communication, allowing each member to express their thoughts, concerns, and aspirations freely. Mutual respect and support are the pillars of our relationships, creating a safe space for everyone to grow and thrive.

We engage in various activities together, such as family meals, outings, and game nights, which foster a sense of unity and togetherness. These shared experiences strengthen our bonds and create lasting memories. Additionally, we value each other’s individuality, recognizing and appreciating the unique qualities and talents that each family member possesses.

Conclusion

In conclusion, family plays a vital role in shaping our lives and nurturing our overall well-being. It provides us with a sense of belonging, love, support, and security. Within the family unit, we learn important values and life skills that shape our character and influence our relationships with others. In my family, a warm and nurturing atmosphere prevails, emphasizing open communication, mutual respect, and togetherness. It is crucial to cherish and maintain strong familial bonds, as they contribute to our happiness, personal growth, and a sense of belonging in this fast-paced and ever-changing world.

Essay About Family 4 (400 words)

Introduction

The family unit holds a profound significance in society, serving as the bedrock upon which individuals learn, grow, and thrive. Within families, we form our earliest connections, cultivate values, and acquire crucial life skills. The family institution is of utmost importance, as it plays a fundamental role in shaping individuals and, consequently, society as a whole.

Role of Family in Society

Families assume multifaceted roles within society, contributing to its overall well-being and progress. Firstly, families provide a nurturing environment where love, care, and support are bestowed upon their members. These emotional bonds create a sense of belonging and security, fostering personal growth, confidence, and self-esteem.

Moreover, families play a vital role in the transmission of cultural and societal values. Children observe and learn from their parents, siblings, and extended family members, inheriting traditions, customs, and moral principles. By instilling values like respect, compassion, and responsibility, families contribute to the formation of conscientious citizens who positively impact society.

Family units also facilitate the socialization process. Within families, individuals learn vital skills such as communication, collaboration, and conflict resolution. These skills lay the foundation for successful relationships in various domains of life, including friendships, education, and careers. By developing empathy and effective communication, families nurture harmonious relationships within society.

Why the Family Institute Is Important?

The family institute is a vital social institution that promotes stability, cohesion, and resilience within society. Strong families directly enhance the well-being of individuals and society as a whole. Stable families provide a supportive environment for children’s emotional, physical, and intellectual growth. Research consistently reveals that children raised in healthy family environments exhibit better academic performance, emotional well-being, and overall life satisfaction.

Additionally, families contribute to social cohesion by fostering a sense of belonging and community. Shared activities create strong bonds and strengthen intergenerational ties. This interconnectedness nurtures solidarity and encourages individuals to work towards the betterment of society. Families also serve as a safety net during challenging times, providing support during economic hardship, illness, or other difficulties.

Conclusion

In conclusion, the family institute plays an indispensable role in society. Families provide emotional support, cultural transmission, and interpersonal skills necessary for individuals to thrive and contribute positively to society. By recognizing the importance of the family institution and investing in its well-being, we cultivate strong, resilient communities that foster the growth and development of future generations. Through the strength of our families, we can build a brighter and more harmonious society for all.

Essay About Family 5 (500 words)

Introduction

Family, a fundamental institution of human society, plays a crucial role in shaping individuals and communities. Over the years, the concept of family has evolved, and modern families face a range of unique challenges. This essay aims to delve into the problems faced by modern families, explore the qualities that define a good family, and emphasize the importance of nurturing healthy family relationships.

The Problems of Modern Families

Modern families face a myriad of challenges that can strain the fabric of their relationships. One prominent issue is the increasing prevalence of busy schedules and work demands, which often result in limited quality time spent together. The advent of technology has also introduced its own set of challenges, such as the addictive nature of social media and electronic devices, leading to decreased face-to-face interaction within families.

Additionally, economic pressures and financial instability can cause stress and tension within households, affecting familial harmony. Shifting societal norms and evolving family structures, such as single-parent families, blended families, and same-sex families, can also pose unique challenges as individuals navigate through unfamiliar territories, often facing societal biases and judgments.

The fast-paced nature of modern life and the constant exposure to external influences can sometimes create a sense of disconnection within families. Communication breakdowns, conflicts, and generational gaps further complicate the dynamics, often leading to a lack of understanding and emotional support.

What Is a Good Family?

A good family is not defined by its adherence to a traditional structure or specific set of circumstances. Rather, it is characterized by qualities that foster love, support, and resilience. In a good family, members prioritize open communication and active listening. They create an environment where everyone feels heard, valued, and understood.

Mutual respect is a cornerstone of a good family. Each member’s individuality, aspirations, and opinions are acknowledged and respected. Respectful interactions cultivate trust and encourage a sense of belonging, enabling family members to thrive and develop into their best selves.

A good family also promotes shared responsibilities and cooperation. Family members work together to create a harmonious household where everyone contributes to daily chores, decision-making, and problem-solving. Such collaboration instills a sense of unity and fosters a strong support system.

Emotional support and unconditional love are vital components of a good family. In times of hardship, family members rally around each other, offering empathy, encouragement, and guidance.

They provide a safe space where individuals can express their feelings without fear of judgment, fostering emotional well-being.
Quality time is another essential element of a good family. While external commitments may demand attention, carving out dedicated moments for family bonding is crucial. Engaging in shared activities, such as family meals, outings, or game nights, helps strengthen the family bond and creates lasting memories.

Conclusion

Modern families encounter numerous challenges, but the essence of a good family remains constant. It is a unit that nurtures love, respect, support, and open communication. In the face of societal changes and evolving family dynamics, it is crucial to prioritize the qualities that define a good family. By doing so, we can foster stronger relationships, build resilient communities, and provide a foundation of love and support for future generations.

Essay About Family – Essay 6 (600 Words)

Introduction

Family is the cornerstone of our lives. It is a source of love, support, and strength. Whether we realize it or not, our families play a vital role in shaping who we are as individuals. A good family provides us with a sense of belonging, security, and happiness. In this essay, we will explore the benefits of a good family and why I love my own family.

Benefits of a Good Family

A good family has numerous benefits that positively impact our lives. Firstly, it provides a sense of belonging. In a world that can often feel chaotic and disconnected, having a family to call our own brings us comfort and reassurance. We know that no matter what challenges we may face, our family will always be there to support us and stand by our side.

Secondly, a good family provides us with a strong support system. When we encounter difficulties or setbacks, our family members are the ones who lift us up, encourage us, and help us find solutions. They offer a listening ear, offer advice, and provide the emotional support we need during challenging times. This support system strengthens our resilience and enables us to face life’s ups and downs with greater courage and determination.

Furthermore, a good family nurtures our personal growth and development. Within it, we have the opportunity to learn from one another, share experiences, and acquire valuable life skills. Our parents, siblings, and extended family members provide guidance, teach us important values, and help shape our character. They are our first teachers, imparting knowledge and wisdom that will stay with us throughout our lives.

A good family also promotes a sense of love and unity. Love is the foundation upon which strong families are built. It is the unconditional love we receive from our family members that makes us feel cherished and valued. Love within a family fosters a safe and nurturing environment where we can express ourselves freely, share our joys and sorrows, and celebrate each other’s achievements. This love and unity create bonds that are unbreakable, forming a solid foundation for our well-being and happiness.

Why I Love My Family

I love my family for countless reasons. Firstly, they have always been there for me, offering unwavering support and encouragement. From cheering me on at school events to celebrating my achievements, my family’s presence has been a constant source of motivation in my life. Their belief in me has instilled a sense of self-confidence and has pushed me to strive for excellence in all that I do.

Moreover, my family members have taught me valuable life lessons. They have imparted the importance of honesty, integrity, and hard work. Through their actions and words, they have shown me the significance of treating others with kindness and respect. These lessons have shaped my character and guided me in making responsible choices.

I also love my family for the love and laughter we share. Our family gatherings are filled with joy, warmth, and a strong sense of togetherness. Whether we are celebrating special occasions or simply spending quality time together, the love and laughter we experience create memories that will be cherished for a lifetime. The bond I share with my family is irreplaceable, and it brings me immense happiness.

Conclusion

In conclusion, a good family offers numerous benefits that contribute to our well-being and happiness. It provides a sense of belonging, a strong support system, and an environment for personal growth. Love and unity within a family create unbreakable bonds and foster a nurturing atmosphere. Personally, I love my family for their unwavering support, the valuable life lessons they have taught me, and the love and laughter we share. Our families are truly a treasure, and it is important to appreciate and cherish them.

Essay on Good Family – Essay 7 (700 Words)

Introduction

In a world filled with constant change and challenges, the significance of a good family cannot be overstated. A family is a unit that provides support, love, and a sense of belonging to its members. It serves as a foundation upon which individuals build their lives and shape their identities. This essay explores the profound importance of a good family and discusses effective strategies to make family bonds stronger, fostering an environment of love, trust, and unity.

Family Importance

A good family acts as a vital support system in an individual’s life. It is the first place where we experience love, care, and acceptance, and it plays a profound role in shaping our character, values, and overall well-being. Families provide emotional support during difficult times, celebrating successes, and offering comfort during failures. They create a sense of security and stability, fostering personal growth, resilience, and self-confidence.

Furthermore, a strong family unit serves as a source of guidance and wisdom. Elders in the family pass down valuable life lessons and moral values to younger generations, providing a strong moral compass. They offer guidance on various aspects of life such as education, relationships, and career choices, sharing their experiences and insights. The intergenerational exchange of wisdom strengthens family ties and ensures the preservation of cultural heritage, passing down traditions and values from one generation to the next.

How to Make Family Bonds Very Strong

Building strong family bonds requires conscious effort and dedication from every family member. Here are some effective strategies that can help create a loving and supportive family environment:

• Communication: Effective communication is the foundation of strong family relationships. Encouraging open and honest dialogue allows family members to express their thoughts, feelings, and concerns without fear of judgment. Active listening and empathetic understanding foster mutual respect, trust, and deeper connections among family members.
• Quality Time: Spending quality time together is vital for strengthening family bonds. Engaging in shared activities that everyone enjoys, such as family dinners, game nights, or outings, helps create lasting memories and fosters a sense of togetherness. These shared experiences contribute to a strong emotional connection among family members and promote a sense of belonging.
• Support and Encouragement: A good family supports and encourages its members to pursue their dreams and aspirations. Celebrating each other’s successes and providing a shoulder to lean on during challenging times cultivates a strong sense of belonging and promotes individual growth. Encouragement, praise, and unconditional love go a long way in nurturing self-esteem, confidence, and resilience within the family unit.
• Mutual Respect: Respecting individual differences and opinions is vital for a harmonious family environment. Each family member should be valued and acknowledged for their unique qualities, strengths, and perspectives. Emphasizing the importance of treating one another with respect, kindness, and empathy creates a safe space where everyone feels heard, understood, and appreciated.
• Shared Responsibilities: Sharing responsibilities within the family not only lightens the load but also strengthens the bond between family members. Collaborating on household chores, decision-making, and problem-solving instills a sense of teamwork, unity, and mutual reliance. By working together, families learn to trust, depend on, and support one another, fostering a strong sense of unity and cooperation.

Conclusion

In conclusion, a good family is the bedrock of personal development, emotional well-being, and a profound sense of belonging. It offers unwavering support, unconditional love, and valuable guidance, playing an indispensable role in shaping individuals’ lives. By fostering open communication, spending quality time together, providing support and encouragement, promoting mutual respect, and sharing responsibilities, families can create unbreakable bonds that withstand the test of time. Investing in the strength of our family relationships not only benefits individuals but also contributes to the overall harmony, well-being, and resilience of society as a whole. Recognizing and prioritizing the importance of a good family is essential in nurturing strong, healthy, and compassionate individuals who can positively impact their families, communities, and the world at large.

Essay on My Family – Essay 8 (800 Words)

Introduction

Family is an integral part of our lives. It is a small unit that provides us with love, support, and a sense of belonging. Each family is unique and has its own dynamics, traditions, and values. My family holds a special place in my heart, and in this essay, I will discuss the advantages and disadvantages of my family in greater detail.

Advantages

• Unconditional Love: One of the greatest advantages of my family is the unconditional love we share. Regardless of the circumstances, I know that my family will always be there for me. They support me in my endeavors, celebrate my successes, and provide comfort during difficult times. This love creates an unbreakable bond among us and gives me a profound sense of security and happiness.
• Strong Support System: My family acts as a strong support system for each other. We believe in each other’s dreams and aspirations and provide the necessary encouragement to achieve them. Whenever any member of our family faces a challenge or setback, we rally together to offer emotional, financial, and moral support. This support system gives me the confidence to take risks and pursue my goals, knowing that my family is standing by my side.
• Shared Values and Traditions: My family shares common values and traditions, which serve as a guiding force in our lives. We believe in honesty, integrity, compassion, and hard work. These values have been passed down through generations and help shape our character. Our traditions, such as celebrating festivals together or having regular family gatherings, create a strong sense of unity and reinforce our bond. They provide a sense of continuity and connection to our roots.
• Emotional Stability: Being part of a loving family provides emotional stability. Knowing that I can rely on my family members for emotional support and understanding is incredibly reassuring. They are always there to lend a listening ear, offer advice, and provide a shoulder to lean on. This emotional stability enables me to navigate the challenges of life with greater resilience and confidence, knowing that I have a safe haven in my family.
• Lifelong Relationships: My family relationships are lifelong bonds that provide a sense of belonging and connection. These relationships extend beyond immediate family members to include grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. The bonds we share with extended family members create a rich tapestry of love, shared experiences, and a support network that expands beyond the nuclear family. These lifelong relationships bring joy, support, and a sense of belonging that cannot be replicated elsewhere.

Disadvantages

• Conflict and Differences: Like any other family, we also experience conflicts and differences of opinion. These disagreements can sometimes create tension and strain relationships. While conflict is a natural part of any family dynamic, it can be challenging to manage and resolve. It requires effective communication, compromise, and understanding from all family members to find common ground and maintain harmony within the family.
• Lack of Privacy: Living in a close-knit family can sometimes result in a lack of privacy. Everyone’s lives are interconnected, and it can be difficult to have personal space or time alone. While this may foster a sense of togetherness and support, it can also limit individual freedom and independence. It is important to establish healthy boundaries and respect each other’s need for privacy to maintain a balance between togetherness and personal space.
• Expectations and Pressure: Family expectations and pressure to conform to certain norms or traditions can be overwhelming at times. The desire to meet the expectations of my family members can create a sense of pressure and hinder personal growth. Balancing individual aspirations with familial expectations can be a delicate task, and it requires open and honest communication to find a middle ground that respects both individuality and family values.
• Financial Burden: In some cases, family can become a financial burden. Responsibilities such as education, healthcare, and other expenses can place a strain on the family’s finances. Meeting these financial obligations can be challenging and may require sacrifices from family members. It is important to foster open discussions about financial matters, establish a budget, and support each other in finding sustainable solutions to alleviate the financial burden.

Conclusion

Despite the challenges and disadvantages, the advantages of my family far outweigh the drawbacks. The unconditional love, strong support system, shared values, emotional stability, and lifelong relationships that my family provides are invaluable. While conflicts and differences are natural, they can be overcome through effective communication, compromise, and understanding. The lack of privacy and expectations can be managed by establishing healthy boundaries and maintaining open dialogue. The financial burden can be alleviated through collective efforts and support. Ultimately, my family is a source of immense joy, strength, and comfort in my life, and I am grateful for the blessings they bring. The advantages of being part of a loving and supportive family outweigh any temporary challenges we may face, making my family an essential and cherished aspect of my life.

Essay About Family – 9 (1300 words)

“Family” is a common word that is highly familiar and natural for anyone. This simple word ‘family’ may sound warm and cozy for some people, but it also might be harsh and bitter words to someone. No matter how peaceful and harmonious a family is, it is extremely rare that conflict does not occur. Family members live under the same roof, but each has a different personality and thoughts. The word family has many modifiers: love, attachment, hatred, compassion, and sympathy. There have been innumerable hardships in our family before these modifiers became part of the word family.

I have four family members including Dad, mom, my older sister, and myself. My family is very warm and amicable. But before there was such happiness and harmony among us, there were many conflicts and problems.

There is such a saying that a person spends most of his or her life with his or her family, yet, I do not agree with this remark. It is a biased opinion to judge this sentence with only nineteen years of my life, but I did not spend most of my life with my family even during that short period of nineteen years. When I was eight years old, I was sent to the United States by my parents to study English. At the young age of eight, I was always full of fear and longed for my parents’ love and attention for a long period of four years. After coming back to Korea, my hometown, I went to a dormitory school for five years, which made longer hiatus between the family. Spending such a long time apart, I gradually lost my knowledge of my family. Each of us lived in a different time and became more ignorant of each other. Conflicts began to rise in our family as we had numerous missed circumstances. One of the problems my family faced was when we went on a family trip to Europe for a month. Our family spent a long time together for the first time. Having gone on a free trip, not a package tour, we had to look for all the places we wanted to visit and eat. My sister and I took my parents in search of a place that our family would enjoy. However, wherever we went, my parents were not satisfied and complained. Dad would only complain about his feelings and would not listen to my sister and me. The constant disagreement eventually led to a big fight in our family during the trip and we could not hide our awkwardness until the travel was over. At that time, my family insisted on each argument and did not try to find the elemental reason for the fight.

My family could not leave the conflict alone, so we thought about our problems. The fundamental and primary problem of my family fighting on a long trip was that we did not have enough time to spend time together. During those long-lost years of family time, we had little opportunity to have conversations or communication. Communication is a common word that is more than just important. It is a foundation of every human activity which enables one to build a relationship, and convey clear emotions, opinions, and ideas to other parties (Merriam Webster, 2019). Since my family has been separated from each other for a long time, we rarely had a deep conversation, thus, I did not know much about my parents’ thoughts. When a group of people has to live together without knowing each other, they will eventually get into difficulties. I am usually reluctant to have a conversation with my dad. My dad, who has patriarchal ideas, always thinks he is right and does not try to listen to me. This self-talking method of communication is called one-way communication. In one-way communication, only the sender can address the information to the receiver, who cannot transfer back the response (Chandler, D, & Munday, 2011). This method of conversation not only hurts the receivers’ feelings but also hurts their pride. It leads to discouragement and reduces his or her work performance. Also, it makes the receivers close their minds toward the one-way speaker, which happened to me toward my dad. When he talked only to himself and did not even try to listen to my words, I was displeased and felt that my opinion was ignored. I did not want to talk anymore. At the time, I could not find out how to unravel the relationship.

I learned that the solution for my family is two-way communication. ‘Two-way Communication is one of the communication methods that can be transmitted and received by both the sender and receiver sides. (Chandler, D, & Munday, 2011) It is certainly an essential factor means of living that to understand and communicate with each other more smoothly and naturally, such as sharing opinions and receiving feedback when a message is delivered. I was embarrassed to even talk to my family because I was not an excellent assertive talker. When I first started to talk with my family, every moment was awkward since I never shared my thoughts and daily life with them. My father, who has a blunt personality, also refused to show his innermost opinions. However, the conversation became progressively natural as we shared our worries that we had not been able to share.

Each person has a different personality, and it is no exception for a family. No matter how long they have been together, each one of the family members is an individual. Everyone should respect each other and remember that having other ideas from someone does not mean it is wrong but just different. For family, it is more comfortable with them than with others, but accepting, agreeing, and acknowledging each other’s convictions is critical, which improves the quality of conversation. Among multitudinous factors to develop effective communication skills such as paying attention and actively participating in the conversation, my family needs to learn is focusing on the positive side. Not only looking at each other’s shortcomings but also looking for positive aspects and supporting and encouraging each other. A smooth and seamless communication that trusts and relies on each other will result in a deeper and stable relationship between my family.

Family is a word that is closest, warmest, and heaviest to me. My family is like a shelter where I can lean the most. Sometimes conflicts arise and hurt each other, but they are the people who are the most supportive of me. They give me tingling advice with the sweetest comfort. My family is more harmonious than anyone. Of course, we still fall into problems. However, through many difficult trials, my family learned how to cope with future conflicts. These conflicts and hardships are more conducive to the further development of the relationship. We developed ourselves through a struggle and became more acquainted with each other. It is a real family to rely on each other and share happiness and pain together. Through Interpersonal skills and positive personal development course, I have learned countless skills such as how to communicate with different people in diverse situations or how to maintain good relationships. Yet, the most crucial fact that I realized is the value of my family. I was able to look back on the family relationship and studied how to handle future problems. A Family is invaluable, and I will love my family more.

Value of family

I am very close to my family. And I loved my family more than anything else. My family is my top priority and always will be. The value of family everyone knows. If someone lives with family, they know the importance of family. And if someone lives stay far from family, they also know or will understand the family’s importance. In India, I have a big family because my family lived with my aunt, uncle, and their children. So, I feel I know the family values very well because of the presence of my family in my life. From age 6 to till today, my family teach me so many things like how to respect people, how to love people, never hurt anyone physically and emotionally, trust, be honest, and many more. Family is also like a school because family teaches us the things like how we need to interact with people. Does the presence of family really matter in life? I feel the family is also an important part of life to learn because sometimes we made mistakes and only the family corrects us.

Family always supports us in good things and corrects us. My sister supports me if I am doing something good. When I made any mistake, she always corrects me. When I was in high school, she supports me to get to graduate on time. Because there were so many circumstances for me to get graduated from high school. Because I had only one year to meet with all the high school and Washington state requirements. So, my sister backs me up and protect my back in high school. And I graduated on time.

The family also helps us to make strong relationships with others. Because if we have family that means we know how to interact with people. How to love them because family is the part that teaches us about love, and we learn from family how to love by seeing family. My family is the best example for me in love because my mom loves my aunt (Dad’s sister-in-law) more than her own sister. And we lived together in India, there was the main reason behind this is my mom and aunt. Because they both want to stay together. Both ladies are the roots of my family because of them we loved each other and connected with each other. When I left my half-family in India, I cried the most just because I am not going to stay anymore with my family. If we love our family, then we will never hurt anyone emotionally because we cannot see anyone crying.

In life, everyone wants to succeed or highly rewarded career. So, our family helps us create a successful future because family gives us valuable suggestions about careers. Family pushes us toward success. The family also guides us to choose the best career and helps us financially to pay our expenses for study. For example, my family wants me to do nursing because they told me nursing have a good opportunity. And they also pay my expenses. I think if my family doesn’t guide me then I will be a dispatcher. There is our family who appreciates us for getting successful.

Most people don’t realize the importance of family in life. They want to spend their family time with friends or maybe on gadgets. They think if we live in a family, the family has so many restrictions on us. But when they are in a problem, the only family helps us to get rid of the problems. At that time, even our best friends refuse to help us, then the family comes to help us. They don’t allow us to do whatever we want to. People also think parent divorce has a bad impact on children. But I think they learn from their parents’ divorce how to keep relationships working. The person who lives stay away from family knows more importance of family than those who live to close family. Because they realized the importance of family on any event, occasion, or festival when they must celebrate without their family. It is very hard to celebrate any event without family members. Then, at that time we realized the importance of family.

Conclusion

Family is nature’s masterpiece. They helped us in-directly. Family love is the most important thing in the world. Family is not important, family is everything. Whatever we are today, just because family supports us. They are beside us by day one in the world. We receive so many things from families like financial support, love, guidance, and society. Family trusts us in the failures as well. Friedrich Nietzsche quote about family” In family life, love is the oil that eases friction, the cement that binds closer together”.

My inspiration in life is my family traditions. My family serves as a lifeline to whom I can run, whatever may be the situation I am facing. I can always depend on my family to guide me and give me the courage to overcome obstacles in life. My parents, being hard-working professionals, know how to manage their time well and with efficiency. Even if they’re busy, they still find time to spend quality time with me. My mother is tall, slim, with long straight red hair, and loves wearing bright, extravagant colors. Always smiles, no matter the circumstances, and that gives me strength and inspiration to face my problems. My father is tall, bulky, with short curly black hair, wears lots of dark clothing, and rarely changes his wardrobe. He is wholehearted and strict, but he has taught me self-discipline and self-control. My older sister Julie has long, frizzy black hair. Petite and prefers to keep up with all the new fashion trends. She is sweet as a peach, loyal, has a big heart, forgives everyone quickly, and is a pleasure to be around. My other sister Crystal is tall, has shoulder-length, brown straight hair, wears tons of black, and can be fierce when she wants to but makes you want to rip out your eyeballs when she annoys you. She is a pro at annoying me. That’s for sure. But that makes me love her more. My older brother Fernando has short black hair, is tall, and stocky, and enjoys wearing dressy clothes. Overprotective, he says he’s an introvert. He isn’t. He says, ‘I like my own time!’, then proceeds to talk to a random person. Fernando is more independent, and he thinks my sisters and I are too girly and annoying, but I understand because he’s the only boy sibling.

Growing up, my family always stuck together. My parents put my siblings and me first all the time. They sincerely care about us. If the food were to run low, they would sacrifice eating to feed us. That’s how much their unconditional love is for us. I believe that the love and care my parents gave me has shaped me to be caring toward others. My parents supported and motivated me when I was unable to do it for myself. I am grateful for their constant support, and I know that whenever it comes to events or emergencies, they would put aside time and effort to be there.

Life with my siblings was incredibly frustrating but also entirely entertaining. Fighting over silly things, always blaming one another, yelling about who gets to watch their TV show first. We have created a long list of hilarious stories. For example, when my sister Crystal tricked me into taking a bite of raw onion when I was about Five. Also, when my brother cut a piece of my sister’s hair. From fighting over the remote to having each other’s backs when trying to sneak out. We were trouble growing up, but it made us have a special bond. Now that we are grown up, we reminisce about the craziness and lively times we had. They motivate me to stay happy.

My favorite thing about family is that as we get old, we can connect to the past through the memories that we share. One of my favorite memories I share with my family to this day is when we camp. It all began when the first time we took a road trip to Utah to visit Zion National Park. I remember it was around fall when the weather was a bit cool. My dad had rented an RV and convinced us all to go. At that time, we all never been camping, so we agreed to go for the experience. When we arrived, The scenery was beautiful. Everything was peaceful, pure, and vibrant. The air smelled delightful, the aroma smelt like rain, wet tree trunks, and flowers. The light of the forest played with the shadows and colors between the trees, making the view a lot more appealing. We were able to hike the trails, be in touch with nature, and at night we were able to stargaze. At that moment, everything was perfect. There was laughter, joy, and happiness that filled our hearts. There was good energy flowing through all of us that day. From then on, we always go back to that park to spend time together. Going camping has become a tradition, and I believe family traditions nourish a family connection, giving us a sense of belonging.

I would compare my family to the movie “Home Alone” because of how big their family is and how the siblings hate but love each other, and the parents will do anything for their children but discipline them when they have to. My family is precisely like that. Kevin, the main character, is similar to me when I was a child, I was irritating, and the youngest in our family. Even though we had tough times, we were able to forget and move on. Just like the boy in home alone was able to forgive his family for leaving him alone.

The influence of family traditions has affected my life enormously. What I am today and what I will become in the future involves the support and affection of my family. They have made me disciplined, dedicated, and sincere. My family fills sweetness in my life. From childhood, I have taken their advice and learned from their mistakes. They have shown me all aspects of how I should live my life through their experiences, like education and work ethic. I know for a fact that they will always be there for me when I need them for company, comfort, or to laugh and to reminisce about our life.